Posts Tagged ‘people’

And whatever you do…

Sometimes serving can seem mundane. Sometimes it can feel pointless.. or that what I’m doing is not really making a difference. I work at the food pantry at the Christian Mission in downtown Mooresville once a week. My job is to fill the boxes with food, making sure each person gets a variety of vegetables, fruits, breads, deli items and desserts. Box after box after box. My little sister stands at the desk and greets each person with a charming little smile and a “Hey darling.. how are you today? You look gorgeous!” .. or something like that, depending on the person of course. :) They love her and I love watching her shine. I load and heave boxes and sometimes, not too often, but sometimes I feel like I’m not really serving, not really loving like Jesus. I’m just tossing food into boxes and heaving them onto a counter. But it seems like whenever I start feeling like what I’m doing isn’t making any difference to shine Christ’s love to someone, I catch the eye of someone I hand a box to – and their eyes are glistening. They’re choked up and barely can whisper – “Thank you.” When this happens, my heart soars. I want to cry.

I’m sharing this because sometimes changing the world can feel overwhelming. What can really do anyway? But its not always the big things – like rescuing girls out of brothels or digging a well. Sometimes it’s just the little things. Like tossing food into boxes or making pancakes at your local soup kitchen. But here’s the thing.. whatever we do for God, it’s a blessing. It doesn’t always have to be the big things.

And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” Colossians 3:17

 Jesus didn’t always to big things. He did of course – raising the dead and healing the sick. But sometimes, he just stroked a child’s head and looked into their eyes and winked at them. He lived generously. And that’s how I want to live. Someday I dream that I can work in an child’s home, or somewhere like that. But for right now, God has me loading boxes. So I can love like Christ right there, handing someone a box of food. I can shine for Him and maybe help them see that they are not alone, not forsaken. There is someone out there who cares about them, because there is Someone in her that loves them.
xoxoxo, Bethany

The moments that count.

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking the last few days. About life. Relationships. The differences between perfect online friends and real messed up people. Don’t freak out that this is an anti-social media blurb. It’s not. I love social media. You can connect instantly with people you love all over the world. I can see pictures of my international friend’s babies within minutes of their births. It’s a gift that has connected us to the world.

But I think there’s a catch. It’s so easy to instead of being in the moment you are in, enjoying the people you are with, to constantly be in the other world. How many times do we take a photo just to post it online? Or as soon as we get to a restaurant with buddies we have to “check-in” so all of our online friends can see that we are having a great time? What about actually having a great time? We spend so much of our time, energy and love creating this perfect life of ours online, where we can be whoever we want to be. We can be shallow, fake, perfect. No one on there has to know about our hurts, has to know about the stupid things we said, the embarrassing things we did. What if instead we stopped and set down the phone, looked into the eyes of the people we are with and focused on them? Their pains, problems, hurts, joys, loves, interests, passions..

Because the last time I checked, real, raw, messed up people are better than fake, shallow, online people any day.

{beth}

How seldom we celebrate WATER.

Happy World Water Day! How often do you stop and celebrate water? We use water endlessly. In our showers, coffee, washing dishes and laundry, cleaning our cars, and on and on. How often do you stop and appreciate that water is always at the reach of your hands, clean, uncontaminated, limitless water? I know I don’t often enough. I take it for granted. All my life it always was there. Always will be. But for over a billion people around the world, this is not a reality. People walk hours every day to retrieve water from ponds or water holes that are contaminated and seething with disease. They die from contaminated water. They lose hours every day fetching the water, hours that could be spent getting an education, or providing for their family.

Did you know that it take over 32 gallons of water to produce one egg? 256 gallons to produce one hamburger? 306 gallons to produce a bag of M’n'M’s? We don’t even realize how much water we indirectly consume every day… and where we would be if we were like the billion people in the world without it.

But there is hope. We can make a difference. We can provide clean water to our family around the world. It’s within our grasp to make a dent in the water crisis. Watch the video below to see how you can help.

Make a difference. Provide clean water. And thank God every day for the beautiful, fresh water dripping from your tap.
-beth

To purchase the photo in high resolution click HERE. 100% of the profits will be donated to charity:water.

What I learned from my 30 hour famine..

As my famine has come to an end, I want to send you all a big thank you. For praying for me, for the people in need, for those of you who physically joined me on my famine, and of course to those of you who donated. I can’t express how incredibly much it means to me! And to think – you are heroes to those people facing another day without food! Your support meant the world to me.

Going into the famine I was doing it for 2 reasons. To raise awareness, and to raise money to help end global hunger. What I didn’t expect was how deeply it would change me. I got such a personal glimpse even if it was such a small one, of what so many people feel every day, all over the world. It felt so real. The pain. Yet I knew at the end of my famine that I could eat. I knew there was food in my pantry, and if there wasn’t, I could run over to the store and buy some. For thousands of people, none of those options are a reality. They went to bed hungry last night, and will again tonight. After searching desperately for food, for something to buy food with, or even for somewhere to buy it.
I know this sounds really silly and it’s okay if you laugh, but as I was preparing John’s dinner last night, the smell almost overpowered me. By then I had been without food since the night before and when I handed him his plate of steaming hot mexican, I literally had to fight tears. It smelled so good. And my stomach was growling ferociously. And I felt so tired, so little energy. That’s when it became so real to me.. that thousands of people go through this on a scale hundreds of times worse. I won’t ever really be the same.

I hope this made a difference in your lives, too. Reaching out to our family around the world who so desperately need us. So thank you again.. and the need is always there.

I don’t have a figure of how much I raised. I decided that wasn’t important.. for me to know how much came in. Because that’s not what mattered. What matters is that we looked beyond ourselves and helped change the world, one person at a time. Thank you for being that change.
-bethany

Happy 1st Anniversary to Jacob and Annetta!

It makes you feel happy just watching them together. The type of love that goes between two people who truly mean the world to each other. The love that shows they like just being together. That type of love that makes you wish everyone could have.

Their wedding was one of the most beautiful I’ve ever witnessed. I’ve never felt such exuberance from a newly married couple as they left the altar, finally one. Yes, I cried.

The air was crisp and cool and the long warm rays of autumn sunshine kissed the day they said, I do. One year ago, October 16. To see a few more pictures from their wedding day click here. I hope your first year together was the best you’ve ever had, and the next year will be even more wonderful.

Blues and Jazz Festival

Detweiler Family Pictures

Dennis & Ruth – Wedding portraits

Don’t forget to check out the photo contest!

Hey everybody! We’re announcing a photo contest! This is for amateur photographers only. If you do photography as a business, you are not eligible for this contest.
Send us your best shot in the following categories:

Black & White

People

Landscapes [rural or urban]

The winner of each category gets their photo printed on an 8×10 canvas!
Please enter only one photo per category. Email your photo submissions to: contact@duoimagery.com
Title your email with the category you are entering your photo in. In the email please give us your name and address and the type of camera you used to take the shot. Also, please state your occupation to help us keep this for amateurs. :) If entering more than one photo, please send separate emails per category.
The deadline is April 15, 2011. Please have your photos in by then as submissions received after that will not be eligible.
We will announce the winners on April 25, 2011. Happy shooting and good luck!

Amateur Photo Contest!

Hey everybody! We’re announcing a photo contest! This is for amateur photographers only. If you do photography as a business, you are not eligible for this contest.
Send us your best shot in the following categories:

Black & White

People

Landscapes [rural or urban]

The winner of each category gets their photo printed on an 8×10 canvas!
Please enter only one photo per category. Email your photo submissions to: contact@duoimagery.com
Title your email with the category you are entering your photo in. In the email please give us your name and address and the type of camera you used to take the shot. Also, please state your occupation to help us keep this for amateurs. :) If entering more than one photo, please send separate emails per category.
The deadline is April 15, 2011. Please have your photos in by then as submissions received after that will not be eligible.
We will announce the winners on April 25, 2011. Happy shooting and good luck!

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